Your Mind Is Lying to You – And Duke's Head Basketball Coach


Your Mind Is Lying to You – And Duke's Head Basketball Coach

Eric Lindsay
Aptitude Leadership Coaching

A few days ago, I saw Duke Basketball Head Coach Jon Scheyer on campus.

My gut reaction? Don’t bother him. He won’t care.

But then I asked myself...what do I actually have to lose?

Nothing. But my mind was acting like I did.

So I took a shot. I walked up and said, “Coach, you got 10 seconds?”

He stopped. I told him how his high school team once beat mine, and we had a fun exchange about growing up near each other.

It wasn’t life-changing, and of course, we’re not best friends now. But I walked away with a great memory, and a reminder of how often we let hesitation hold us back for no reason.

How many moments do we miss because we assume we’ll be ignored, rejected, or embarrassed? Most of the time, the only thing at stake is our own comfort.

Next time doubt creeps in, ask yourself: What’s the worst that can happen? The answer is usually: Not much.

And what’s the best that can happen? A great memory, a new connection, or simply the confidence that comes from betting on yourself.

What’s a moment where you pushed past doubt and just went for it? I’d love to hear your story.

In my 12-week program, I’ll provide you with the clarity, tools, and confidence to step into your true potential.

Click learn more to take the next step.

Best,
Eric Lindsay
Owner & Coach
Aptitude Leadership Coaching


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